This week, I had the chance of sharing lunch with my chapel team members from Union Theological Seminary. As is our tradition, we began our meeting by reflecting on the recent chapel services and discussing the upcoming ones. Our conversation naturally turned to prayer, where we lifted up those affected by conflict and war, those who face hunger, those who have passed away, and all who are enduring difficult times. We sought God’s mercy and peace for all people, recognizing the profound need for compassion and love in our world.
As the year draws to a close, we find ourselves approaching a series of significant days: Halloween on October 31, followed by All Saints’ Day on November 1 and All Souls’ Day on November 2. Halloween, with its traditions of trick-or-treating, costume-wearing, pumpkin carving, and festive gatherings, marks a time of playful celebration. In contrast, All Saints’ Day invites us to honor the lives of saints, while All Souls’ Day encourages us to remember and pray for those who have departed. Many observe these days by attending mass, visiting graves, and lighting candles as symbols of hope and remembrance for loved ones.
This three-day observance, known as Allhallowtide, serves as a poignant reminder of the cycles of life and death, joy and sorrow. Each season brings its own unique rhythm, much like music. Just as every song has its distinct melody, so too do the seasons of our lives. They can be bright and joyful or somber and reflective, each with their own harmony and lyrics. We are the composers of our own life’s melody, and to achieve harmony, we must engage with our community. Faith and harmony cannot flourish in isolation; they thrive in connection with others.
When faced with challenges, it’s essential to sit with those feelings for a while. If you find you can resolve them on your own, that’s wonderful. However, if the burden feels too heavy, reach out to trusted friends or mentors. Sometimes, a simple conversation over coffee or a walk can provide clarity. If you feel the need for deeper reflection, consider going on a retreat or engaging in activities that bring you joy—be it art, music, poetry, or cooking. These pursuits can rekindle hope, which is truly the anchor of the soul.
During times of trial, I often draw strength from scripture, and this time I read from the Book of Isaiah which offers profound reassurance.
Isaiah 43:2 “When you pass through the waters, I will be with you; and through the rivers, they shall not overwhelm you; when you walk through fire, you shall not be burned, and the flame shall not consume you.”
This verse reminds us that we are never alone in our struggles; divine presence accompanies us through every challenge. So celebrate and by celebrating we can bloom like flowers in the spring, becoming beacons of light for those around us. In doing so, we cultivate a sense of grounding, centering ourselves in grace and faith. By this, we also turn a melody which accompanies the other voice and plays a role in creating harmony.
As we navigate the complexities of life, let us remember the importance of community, the power of hope, and the grace that sustains us. Together, we can create a symphony of support and love, illuminating the path for ourselves and others.
Romy